The Art of Anal: Book One of Guide to Sexy Activities

Lots of Lube and Patience.
There might be poop.
Everyone has a butthole. This means everyone has the opportunity to experience the pleasure of butt play.

Those are three universal truths regarding the Art of Anal.

Confidence is always the first step to any sexual encounter. This is something I post at the beginning of all my guides. Whether you are attracting a mate, trying something new, or assuring your partner that 'it won't hurt' confidence is the Most Valuable Player.
There are only two ways to gain confidence. The first is to be a good actor. This is definitely not a recommended option and has a huge fail rate. If you do not really understand what you are doing, you or your partner will get hurt. Getting hurt will ruin that experience and will destroy any trust you have formed preparing for this activity. Your partner will most likely not want to participate in this activity again. Ultimately, there was no actual confidence gained but there was a lot to lose. The best way to gain confidence is through knowledge. Knowledge is gained either through trial